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As with everything in recovery, you must be open and willing—even if all the advice you get goes against your gut.If you’re stuck in a situation where there is no time to gather wisdom—say your partner’s mom hands you a glass of wine during a visit—don’t stress.
If he had just drank the way he wanted to from the get-go, I surely never would have ended up getting in a semi-serious relationship with him.” Hindsight is, of course, 20-20.It’s all about being totally happy, honest and clean.When in doubt about anything, ask yourself: How does this advance my sobriety? ” Lucia, a 30-year-old who works in TV industry in Los Angeles and has been sober for five years, says, “Most everyone—sober or not—has problems and issues and baggage.Carroll offers, “Most alcoholics know places that don’t serve liquor—coffeehouses, museums.
If you’re going out to dinner, it’s okay to wait till you arrive, and when the wine list arrives just say, ‘Nah, I don’t do that anymore.’ Do it casually; whether to go into greater detail or not really depends upon the relationship.” Amy, a 32-year-old stylist who lives in Manhattan and has been sober for 10 years, tells of romancing a particular “normie,” who turned out to be anything but.If that person has good recovery and the normie is a casual drinker, however, there’s no reason why it couldn’t be a good romantic situation.” For me, dating is still fraught with drama—but way less than it was three years ago.